如何讓自己成為受歡迎的人

　　Greet everyone you see with a warm smile. Chances are they will smile back.

　　第一步：用微笑問(wèn)候別人

　　用暖意的微笑問(wèn)候別人。機(jī)會(huì)就是他們也會(huì)向你微笑。

　　Step 2: Initiate conversations

　　Initiate conversations. Ask people about events in their life.

　　第二步：進(jìn)行談話

　　進(jìn)行談話。和別人談?wù)撍麄兩钪械钠匠Ｊ隆?/p>

　　Tip:Be enthusiastic when you talk to people to let them know you are excited to talk to them.

　　小貼士：當(dāng)你和別人談話時(shí)，想要他們知道你很樂(lè)于和他們談話，你要熱情些。

　　Step 3: Listen

　　Give people your undivided attention when they are talking to you.

　　第三步：傾聽(tīng)。

　　當(dāng)別人和你談話時(shí)要全神貫注地傾聽(tīng)。

　　Step 4: Respond with empathy

　　Respond to people with empathy. Be encouraging and supportive.

　　第四步：融為一體

　　和他人融為一體。要鼓勵(lì)和支持他們。

　　Tip:If someone is telling you a story about something that made them angry, get angry with them.

　　小貼士：如果有人和你述說(shuō)令他們發(fā)怒的事，和他們一起發(fā)怒吧。

　　Step 5: Be positive

　　Be positive. Do not talk negatively about other people.

　　第五步：談?wù)摰膬?nèi)容要積極

　　談?wù)摰膬?nèi)容要積極。不要非議他人。

　　Step 6: Help others

　　Volunteer your time for others in need. It could be to help someone move, to paint a room, or to help raise money for a charity.

　　第六步：幫助他人。

　　愿意花時(shí)間去幫助那些需要幫助的人?？梢詭蛣e人搬東西，刷墻或是幫慈善組織募捐。

　　Step 7: Play a sport or hobby

　　Play a sport or begin a hobby of interest and have fun.

　　第七步：要經(jīng)常運(yùn)動(dòng)或培養(yǎng)愛(ài)好

　　要經(jīng)常運(yùn)動(dòng)或培養(yǎng)愛(ài)好來(lái)開(kāi)心生活。